Online Dating - Am I In Love?

It's very exciting when you finally connect with that someone special at an online dating site! There is a special thrill to that special 'connection'. You will message more often, share more information, text, even talk on the phone.

Likely you will find all your free time is now spent more online so you can be with that special someone. The two of you begin to tell each other how much you care. You may even say the "L" word. Sometimes too soon... It is easy to feel that you have fallen in love with the person you have met through online dating. You probably have shared more about yourselves, your past, your dreams, your desires, etc., than you have shared with anyone else. You feel you really know each other, you feel so close, you can almost feel their touch. Your heart races each time you start to talk. Yes, you are sure you are in love, but is it love or infatuation? Infatuation is: fluttering of the heart; rise in body temperature; fluids flowing; the desire to be with that person forever and always (sounds like love too doesn't it). If you stayed in this mode of communication for the rest of your lives you would be totally devoted to each other, there is no doubt about that. It is very hard to maintain this level, no matter what, but the true test comes in the meeting.

So is it love or just infatuation? First question, have you met yet? If you answered no then you may think you are, but you may not be.

Meeting Your Online Dating Love

When you finally meet that special someone in person you can finally see their eyes, their smile, and last, but never least, feel the "chemistry". Chemistry is really the "pheromones" that we release and whether they are received well by the other, or rejected is still a mystery.

No matter how well you may know each other prior to meeting and no matter how well you may get along, if there is no "chemistry" you may be friends forever but you will never be a couple.

You may love the person for who they are, what they represent, what they do, their morals and standards, but if there is no "chemistry/pheromones" there will be no long term love relationship.

 

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