Making Love With Your Online Dating Partner - Online
AKA Cybersex

 

Cybersex is a common way of enjoying sexual relations with someone you have met through online dating. Usually this happens when you are online dating in different countries and you don't have the ability to connect in 'real life'.

Cybersex can be a thrilling, or very dangerous, depending on the circumstances. You must be careful of what you are doing before your get involved in this practice.

On this page I am not talking about video, I am strictly talking about text cyber sex. I will talk about that on a new page...coming soon.

Connecting Online Sexually-AKA CyberSex

The "make love not war" free love and sex era of the sixties and seventies has re-emerged online through what is known as "cyber sex". The beauty of this practice is that it is right at our fingertips (so to speak). Cyber Sex continues to grow as a practice, both for closeness between lovers and, without a doubt, and a pleasure seeking 'event' for sexual fantasy between casual connections through online dating.

Cyber Sex can happen with anyone, anywhere and at anytime. Is it not new. This online sexual practice has been going on for a long time, though it was probably called mutual masturbation, or something a bit nicer, before the word 'cyber sex' was invented.

Are There Dangers of Cybersex?

For online dating partners, that live in different states/provinces/countries, no I don't think there are dangers - as long as you are partners - consenting adults - who are in love and this is a way to show your love.

Also, with single online lovers (or partners that are separated) I do not believe that cyber sex is dangerous. It is a very intimate way to communicate and love each other when you are apart.

However, we read all the time that thousands, if not millions, of on-line sexual predators and/or addicts looking for new and more daring erotic adventures turn to cyber sex. So this is a practice that you must be careful about participating in. This is not for 'one night stands. This is not the kind of activity you want to, or should, participate in with someone you do not know well. If it is with someone you don't know, and have no idea of their age or if they are male or female, you can feel pretty awful after the fact if you find out what they told you is not the truth. Actually, you can feel pretty awful after the fact period. Make sure you know who it is AND what you are doing BEFORE you do it!

What If I Want To Participate in Cybersex?

If you do, first I highly recommend you know this person through online dating - and know them well enough that you have seen their picture, talked to them on the phone, have information that you can connect back to them. You must trust this person. Trusting the person you are going to engage in cyber sex with is critical before you can successfully explore the possibilities.

Know if they are male or female, depending on what relationship you want. Your MUST know they are over the age of majority. Do everything you can to ensure this or you could, and will be charged. If you are unsure do not do it!

Also, make sure that this person is 'single'. Don't take the chance of hurting a partner or spouse. If your not sure - don't do it.

Relationship At Home & Cybersex

How can you integrate cyber sex relationships into a real life sexual experience with you and your spouse/partner? If you are doing this and not prepared to tell your spouse/partner then you have to admit that something is very wrong in the relationship. If you do decide to tell be prepared for the break-up and break-down of your relationship. On the other hand, it may surprise you to find out that your spouse/partner is doing the same thing you are. Be prepared to handle both outcomes.

Books On Cybersex

 

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